Please pray for the ministry of Pastor John at JEMS as he mobilizes teams to serve in South America and Japan. -------- "I lift up my eyes to the mountains - where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth." - Psalm 121
Saturday, December 21, 2013
Wednesday, December 18, 2013
What's the latest on PJ's back problems?
A number of you have been kind enough to remember my back problems in your prayers. Thank you for your concerns and care for me.
As some know, I've been having back and leg pain for the past four years. The condition has varied from mild to severe, at times making it quite difficult to walk or stand for any length of time. I had an earlier diagnosis of arthritis in my hip joint, so I attributed my walking problem to an arthritic hip.
But as the pain gradually worsened, I decided after returning from my extended mission stay from June to September of this year, to seek some medical counsel. X-rays revealed a condition called spinal stenosis, which is a flattening of the discs between the vertebrae, specifically in my lower back, the lumbar vertebrae. Together with an existing arthritic condition in my vertebra, the sciatic nerve is being pinched and inflamed, creating pain in my lower back and legs.
On November 19th, on the advice of a back specialist at Kaiser, I underwent a procedure called a spinal epidural. It sounds like something a woman gets when she is about to deliver, doesn't it? In this case, there is no injection into the spinal cord itself, but a needle is passed into the epidural space in the vertebral column. Once the needle is in place, cortisone is injected into the space around the inflamed area of my lumbar vertebra.
My needles looked like this:
It was not fun. But I had some hope that the procedure would help alleviate the pain. So far, I have to say that I've had a modicum of relief. Pain level has subsided from a 7 to a 5, but I am not yet pain free.
It's possible that I may have to undergo this procedure again. Many people repeat the procedure up to three times a year. The cortisone injections are not without their own risks. Kaiser advises not doing it more than three times a year because of the risk of developing brittle bone disease. So yes, I'm not planning to run back anytime soon.
As it relates to my ministry in South America, I am grateful to the many friends who have been kind enough to offer rides and to help reduce the amount of walking that I have to do in São Paulo. (Special thanks to Tadashi, André, Kathiuce, Max and Ton. You guys are a big blessing to me!).
I'm not sure how I appear to people in public, but during my last trip, as I traveled on the São Paulo metro, I've had people offer their seats to me. Hmm. Do I look old or something? :)
Thanks again to those who have asked. My apologies for not having shared about this sooner.
Blessings to you,
PJ
As some know, I've been having back and leg pain for the past four years. The condition has varied from mild to severe, at times making it quite difficult to walk or stand for any length of time. I had an earlier diagnosis of arthritis in my hip joint, so I attributed my walking problem to an arthritic hip.
But as the pain gradually worsened, I decided after returning from my extended mission stay from June to September of this year, to seek some medical counsel. X-rays revealed a condition called spinal stenosis, which is a flattening of the discs between the vertebrae, specifically in my lower back, the lumbar vertebrae. Together with an existing arthritic condition in my vertebra, the sciatic nerve is being pinched and inflamed, creating pain in my lower back and legs.
On November 19th, on the advice of a back specialist at Kaiser, I underwent a procedure called a spinal epidural. It sounds like something a woman gets when she is about to deliver, doesn't it? In this case, there is no injection into the spinal cord itself, but a needle is passed into the epidural space in the vertebral column. Once the needle is in place, cortisone is injected into the space around the inflamed area of my lumbar vertebra.
My needles looked like this:
It was not fun. But I had some hope that the procedure would help alleviate the pain. So far, I have to say that I've had a modicum of relief. Pain level has subsided from a 7 to a 5, but I am not yet pain free.
It's possible that I may have to undergo this procedure again. Many people repeat the procedure up to three times a year. The cortisone injections are not without their own risks. Kaiser advises not doing it more than three times a year because of the risk of developing brittle bone disease. So yes, I'm not planning to run back anytime soon.
As it relates to my ministry in South America, I am grateful to the many friends who have been kind enough to offer rides and to help reduce the amount of walking that I have to do in São Paulo. (Special thanks to Tadashi, André, Kathiuce, Max and Ton. You guys are a big blessing to me!).
I'm not sure how I appear to people in public, but during my last trip, as I traveled on the São Paulo metro, I've had people offer their seats to me. Hmm. Do I look old or something? :)
Thanks again to those who have asked. My apologies for not having shared about this sooner.
Blessings to you,
PJ
Emanuel (em português)
Ao refletirmos sobre essa época de Natal, que possamos ser lembrados da palavra, "Emanuel." A palavra encontrada em Mateus 1:23 nos fornece tanto o seu propósito e seu significado. “A virgem ficará grávida e dará à luz um filho, e lhe chamarão Emanuel," que significa “Deus conosco.”
"Deus conosco " tem sido uma fonte de conforto em toda a história bíblica. Deus usou essas palavras muitas vezes para trazer encorajamento, para reforçar a coragem, para fornecer segurança.
Para Isaque, como ele começou de novo em uma nova terra : "Naquela noite, o Senhor lhe apareceu e disse: “Eu sou o Deus de seu pai Abraão. Não tema, porque estou com você; eu o abençoarei e multiplicarei os seus descendentes por amor ao meu servo Abraão.” (Gênesis 26:24)
Para Josué, quando ele assumiu a liderança do povo de Israel : Assim como estive com Moisés, estarei com você; nunca o deixarei, nunca o abandonarei. (Josué 1:5)
Para Isaías, quando ele assumiu o ministério profético: "Por isso não tema, pois estou com você; não tenha medo, pois sou o seu Deus. Eu o fortalecerei e o ajudarei; eu o segurarei com a minha mão direita vitoriosa." (Isaías 41:10) .
E outra vez , o Emanuel de escritura desde o que era necessário para os servos de Deus a responder em fé e coragem.
Para aqueles que andam no mundo de hoje, nós podemos usar o lembrete de que Deus continua a estar conosco. Nós não estamos imunes aos desafios e tragédias que muitas vezes vêm com a vida. O que temos como filhos de Deus é uma promessa, uma garantia da presença firme e fiel de Deus conosco. O Emanuel deve tocar claramente em nossos corações quando estamos enfraquecidos ou frustrados ou prontos para desistir.
Deus está no meio de nós.
E, embora a tentação é ser tão facilmente distraídos, precisamos desta temporada para centralizar nossos pensamentos e os nossos corações na presença de Deus, o Emanuel. É fácil perder-lo no meio de nossas tecnologias, nossos SMS, nossas mídias sociais , nossas famílias, nossos empregos, nossas atividades. Podemos nos encontrar olhando a confusão rodando que é a nossa vida e perder a calma tranquila da Emanuel que ainda espera por nós.
Na pintura conhecida de Vincent Van Gogh, A Noite Estrelada, nossos olhos são apanhados pelo trabalho da escova de estrelas e nuvens e sol e da lua. Nós podemos facilmente perder a torre da igreja abaixo. E ainda por muitos críticos de arte e historiadores , essa igreja é o ponto central , a âncora da pintura, desenho do olho em direção à terra.
Precisamos encontrar a nossa âncora de novo? Não vai ser na igreja , necessariamente , mas no Emanuel. O ponto central , o ponto estável está em Jesus Cristo, a provisão de Deus para nós.
Desejo a vocês as bênçãos calorosas de Deus para a época do Natal e uma esperança maravilhosa para o Ano Novo ! Que Deus esteja com você!
Feliz Natal a partir de Pastor John
Por favor, orem pela minha viagem missionária em janeiro e fevereiro.
6 janeiro - Partida do LAX
7 janeiro - Chegada em São Paulo
9 - 12 janeiro - Treinamento da equipe de missões em São Paulo
13 - 26 janeiro - Viagem com equipe missionária brasileira para a Argentina
26 janeiro - Retorno a São Paulo
29 janeiro - 3 fevereiro - Viagem missionária a Assunção, Paraguai
3 fevereiro - Retorno a São Paulo
4 - 19 fevereiro - Visite as igrejas e pastores no Brasil, em preparação para o ministério de julho
19 fevereiro - Partida São Paulo para Lima, Peru
19 - 24 fevereiro - Visitas em Lima
25 fevereiro - Retornar para Los Angeles
A análise de Van Gogh "The Starry Night", é citado a partir do discurso de formatura na Biola University pelo Makoto Fujimura, 26 de Maio de 2012.
Sunday, December 15, 2013
Immanuel (PJ's Christmas Greeting and message in English)
As we reflect on this Christmas season, may we be reminded of the word, "Immanuel." The word found in Matthew 1:23 provides us with both its purpose and its meaning. “The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel” (which means “God with us”).
"God with us" has been a source of comfort throughout the historical, biblical account. God used these words many times to bring encouragement, to bolster courage, to provide assurance.
To Isaac, as he started out afresh in a new land: "The Lord appeared to him the same night and said, “I am the God of your father Abraham; Do not fear, for I am with you. I will bless you, and multiply your descendants, For the sake of My servant Abraham.” (Genesis 26:24)
To Joshua, as he took over the leadership of the people of Israel: "As I was with Moses, so I will be with you; I will never leave you nor forsake you." (Joshua 1:5)
To Isaiah, as he undertook the prophetic ministry: "‘Do not fear, for I am with you; Do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, surely I will help you, Surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.’" (Isaiah 41:10).
Time and time again, the Immanuel of scripture provided what was necessary for God's servants to respond in faith and courage.
For those who walk in the world today, we can use the reminder that God continues to be with us. We are not immune from the challenges and tragedies that often come with life. What we are promised as God's children is the assurance of God's steady and faithful presence with us. The Immanuel must ring clearly in our hearts when we are weakened or frustrated or ready to call it quits.
God is in our midst.
And while the temptation is to be so easily distracted, we need this season to center our thoughts and our hearts on the presence of God, the Immanuel. It's easy to miss him in the midst of our technologies, our texts, our social media, our families, our jobs, our activities. We can find ourselves looking at the swirling confusion that is our lives and miss the quiet stillness of the Immanuel who still waits for us.
In the well-known painting of Vincent Van Gogh, The Starry Night, our eyes are caught up by the brush work of stars and clouds and sun and moon. We can easily miss the spire of the church below. And yet for many art critics and historians, that church is the center point, the anchor of the painting, drawing the eye earthward.
Do we need to find our anchor again? It will not be in the church necessarily, but in the Immanuel. The center point, the stable point is in Jesus Christ, God's provision for us.
Wishing you God's warmest blessings for the Christmas season and wonderful hope for the New Year! May God be with you!
Merry Christmas from Pastor John
Please enjoy this beautiful rendition of a contemporary praise song entitled, "Emmanuel" by Hillsong:
Tuesday, November 12, 2013
JEMS South America Missions Invitation
Serving
on the mission field is an exciting place to be. It's surely terrifying
for some people, but it's a place where one learns to depend even more
completely on a God who is trustworthy and unfailing.
Do you have that experience in your Christian life?
Do you long to have the heart-pounding, not-sure-what's-gonna-happen-next dependency upon God?
JEMS South America department encourages people, young and old to step out in faith and walk with God on the mission field.
Do you long to have the heart-pounding, not-sure-what's-gonna-happen-next dependency upon God?
JEMS South America department encourages people, young and old to step out in faith and walk with God on the mission field.
Take a moment to watch this invitation video:
Learn
more: bit.ly/jemsapp
Do
I qualify? bit.ly/jemsprep
Fill
out application: bit.ly/apply2jemsDeadline for applications: February 28, 2014
Approximate project cost: $2800
It's autumn and it seems that this year is coming to a rapid close!!
Autumn brings warmer colors as temperatures turn cooler. The JEMS office is blessed as friends bring by bags of kaki (persimmons) for the staff to enjoy.I was privileged to meet with Arturo Yosh----, over lunch in Monterey Park where he also resides. We met at the COPANI conference in Buenos Aires this past September. He is the incoming president of APN, the Association of Panamerican Nikkei, an international Nikkei community organization. His longtime involvement with those of Japanese descent in Latin America may be helpful for ministry relationships that JEMS wishes to make in the future.
Recruiting Begins for 2014
We will begin our recruitment for JEMS mission projects slated for July 2014. More and more churches in South America are requesting JEMS teams and we are trusting God for workers to meet the short term mission needs. As a practical faith step, I invite you and your church to begin praying about organizing a small team to serve for two to three weeks in July. JEMS will work to match you with a host church in South America, as well as to provide training and preparation for you and your group.
In case you missed those links indicated in the video, please visit the following for more information:
Learn more: bit.ly/jemsapp
Do I qualify? bit.ly/jemsprep
Fill out application: bit.ly/apply2jems
Seeking Staff Support
Are you interested in helping us fulfill the Great Commission mandate?
- We are looking for volunteers to assist in the office.
- We are also open to creating fund-raised, paid staff positions.
As the opportunities to serve are multiplied with new areas of mission service in Argentina, Paraguay and perhaps, Peru, we are looking for those with a heart for missions and for these South American nations. We are looking to staff our office in Los Angeles as well as build an administrative team of national staffers in São Paulo.
Speaking of staffing, please remember to pray for Rianna Wong, who continues to serve JEMS as a paid part-time staffer responsible for South America missions recruitment and training.
Pastor John's immediate schedule
Please pray for me as I undergo a medical procedure on Tuesday, November 19th. In an effort to address my back problems (I have been diagnosed with spinal stenosis), I will be treated with a spinal epidural, flushing the affected area with cortisone. Please pray that the procedure goes through without problems and that I will have relief from pain.
During Thanksgiving week, I am excited to visit my daughter, Tracey in Atlanta. She and her husband have been living and working there since their marriage in 2007. It will be nice to spend time with them and to have an opportunity to rest a bit.
I am trusting that the medical procedure will give me sufficient relief to return to South America for six weeks in January and February. My plans are to attend the pastors' retreats of the two major Nikkei Christian denominations in Brazil: Brazil Holiness Church and Brazil Free Methodist Church. Those two denominations alone represent almost sixty churches scattered throughout Brazil.
Over these past three months, I have been working with Brazilian leaders to organize a Brazilian team to serve in Argentina in January. It appears that this project may not come together, but it is still my intention to visit Buenos Aires to continue strengthening our ministry partnerships there.
I am grateful for your continued prayer and financial partnership. May God continue to bless JEMS with open doors and open hearts in South America! I hope to see you very soon!
PJ
In case you missed it:
Pastor John at the COPANI conference in Buenos Aires (with cool video)
Wednesday, November 06, 2013
Pastor John at COPANI 2013 in Buenos Aires, Argentina
What a great experience to be among almost five-hundred Nikkei leaders and young people at COPANI (Convención Panamericana Nikkei) in Buenos Aires. It was an opportunity to network with Nikkei from 14 mostly Latin American countries. I was quite relieved to discover that a number of people were able to speak with me in English, as Spanish was the primary language of the convention.
Upon my return in September, I was invited by Discover Nikkei, a community project of the Japanese American National Museum, to write a brief account of my experience there. The article I submitted can be found here: LINK.
For those who are more visual in their orientation, I also created a brief video of my time during the four-day conference.
In addition to the COPANI convention, I was invited to speak at the Sunday morning service of the Centro Cristiano Megumi in Buenos Aires. In this case, the pastor, Luis Yonamine, is tri-lingual, speaking English, Japanese and Spanish. I was able to preach in English with his able interpretation into Spanish.
Upon my return in September, I was invited by Discover Nikkei, a community project of the Japanese American National Museum, to write a brief account of my experience there. The article I submitted can be found here: LINK.
For those who are more visual in their orientation, I also created a brief video of my time during the four-day conference.
In addition to the COPANI convention, I was invited to speak at the Sunday morning service of the Centro Cristiano Megumi in Buenos Aires. In this case, the pastor, Luis Yonamine, is tri-lingual, speaking English, Japanese and Spanish. I was able to preach in English with his able interpretation into Spanish.
Thank you so much for your prayers for the three-month long ministry in South America. It was a productive and blessed time.
Tuesday, October 29, 2013
PJ on LA Talk Radio
Jimi Yamagishi and I were invited recently to appear on LA Talk Radio.
The host, Guy Towe, whom I knew as part of my church in Camarillo, invited me to share about the ministry in South America. Being on the public airways and being careful not to antagonize any governmental authorities, our ministry is referred to as a volunteer program. I'm not hiding our light under a bushel. Just being clear.
The radio program was recorded and can be heard online here. LINK
The host, Guy Towe, whom I knew as part of my church in Camarillo, invited me to share about the ministry in South America. Being on the public airways and being careful not to antagonize any governmental authorities, our ministry is referred to as a volunteer program. I'm not hiding our light under a bushel. Just being clear.
The radio program was recorded and can be heard online here. LINK
Thursday, October 24, 2013
A brief report of PJ's ministry from June to September 2013
Thank you for your prayer support that made these three months of ministry possible. In order to sustain the ongoing work of JEMS South America mission program, please pray that God will provide additional financial partners to meet my support requirements.
The video provides a look at the opportunities and open doors that God has provided for JEMS in South America. It is also an invitation to consider investing yourself in the ministry. We have volunteer programs, (minimum two to three weeks in length), which offer a firsthand look and hands-on experience in service and cross-cultural ministry.
Begin praying today about setting aside some time in January or July 2014 to see what God can do through your life!
The song I selected to accompany the video is entitled, "Oceans" (Where Feet May Fail) by Hillsong United. The lyrics express the challenge of moving out of the shallow end of the Christian life and to trust God in the deep water.
You call me out upon the waters
The great unknown where feet may fail
And there I find You in the mystery
In oceans deep
My faith will stand
Your grace abounds in deepest waters
Your sovereign hand
Will be my guide
Where feet may fail and fear surrounds me
You've never failed and You won't start now
So I will call upon Your name
And keep my eyes above the waves
When oceans rise
My soul will rest in Your embrace
For I am Yours and You are mine
This song was our JEMS Argentina Team theme song as we moved into unknown areas: new cities, new people, a different language, uncertain expectations. We came to embrace this song and the God who led us moment by moment.
It's an exciting place to be. Terrifying for some people, I'm sure. But it's a place where one learns to depend even more completely on a God who is trustworthy and unfailing.
Do you have that experience in your Christian life? Do you long to have the heart-pounding, not-sure-what's-gonna-happen-next dependency upon God? I invite you to step out in faith and walk with God on the mission field. Any mission field.
Make an appointment today to speak with your pastor and discover what opportunities await.
The video is available in HD. Please take a moment to adjust the setting to 1080 in the lower right hand corner of the Youtube frame.
Tuesday, October 08, 2013
For a change of pace today . . .
A recent JEMS traveler who skipped the obligatory JEMS training sessions was asked by a Brazilian young adult: "Do you know the name of our country's capital?" The JEMS traveler answered, "Rio de Janeiro?"
He was incorrect.
JEMS provides a minimum of two days of training and assigned reading for all of its volunteers. We don't want our teams to travel to other countries and be the ignorant and ugly Americans.
Test your Brazil IQ by taking the CS Monitor Quiz "How well do you know Brazil?"
Whether you're a travel veteran or are unfamiliar with anything south of Orange County, here is a chance to learn a bit more about one of the most exciting places on the planet!
Start the quiz here
By the way, shame on you, CNN.
Tuesday, October 01, 2013
Back in the 626
Thank you very much for your prayers on my behalf. I'm sitting in the JEMS Office after a week of recuperation to express my appreciation to God for his sustaining grace during these past three months.
After three months away, I was able this morning to go to my auto mechanic to fix a problem with my car. Just prior to my departure for South America in June, while running errands, I got into my car, and leaned across to open my glove compartment. That resulted in several coins falling out of my pants pocket and onto the car seat. A dime rolled off the seat and made a perfect entry into to the slot of my seat belt buckle.
Not realizing that the dime had fallen into the slot, I tried to secure my seat belt, only to find that the tongue (that's what it's called) would not latch. The coin was blocking the way. Not realizing what had happened, I tried to force the seat belt to latch, but only succeeded in wedging the coin in further.
After several failed attempts to remove the coin, I gave up as I didn't have time to fix the situation before leaving. To avoid a possible ticket, I simply buckled my seat belt into the passenger seat buckle whenever I had to drive.
Why did I tell you this story?
Much of my ministry involves working to build connections with people from other cultures and languages. Sort of like buckling a seat belt, as it were. Because we are not always familiar with customs and language, small things like gestures, a facial expression, an unpleasant attitude or the choice of vocabulary can obstruct our efforts to make those connections. When we try to force things, the obstruction simply becomes wedged in even deeper.
Cross-cultural ministry requires wisdom, finesse and an outpouring of God's Holy Spirit to keep obstructions at a distance. We prayerfully depend on the Lord to provide us with a sense of timing, wording and open doors.
The caption on the bridge-building photo just above says, "Seek to encourage, to connect, to strategize, and to share a vision with those who will come after."
I am grateful that God has provided many open doors for JEMS in South America through years of relationship and bridge building. People like Rev Ray and Ryoko Narusawa, Rev. Roy and Nana Yamamoto and Rev. Sam Tonomura are still remembered in Brazil with fondness. Our JEMS summer volunteers throughout the years have, for the most part, left positive impressions that enable JEMS to continue their ministry of service and servanthood.
God has also blessed my time in South America. My ability to speak Portuguese is a gift of God. It creates just enough curiosity that through the blend of teaching God's word, a unique talent for cross-cultural relationship-building, a good sense of humor and flexibility, doors continue to remain open or are now opening.
Please pray as JEMS South America Department launches its newest missions strategy in Brazil. We are inviting Brazilian Nikkei to serve with JEMS cross-culturally in Argentina. Lord willing, I will be leading a team of Brazilians to serve this January in three cities: Buenos Aires, La Plata and Colón.
Please pray for this January project:
1. That the Brazilians who have indicated their interest will follow through. Four have already dropped out.
2. That my back pain will be resolved. (I was just diagnosed on Friday with arthritis in my lumbar vertebra. This is causing pain in my back as well as pain and weakness in my legs when I am walking.)
3. Pray overall that others may be led to join my prayer and financial support team. I am unable to serve full-time with JEMS as my support requirements have not yet been reached.
Thank you so much! It's good to be home. Make sure to see my tongue-in-cheek post called, "Top Ten Reasons I'm Happy to be Home!"
Blessings from Pastor John!
Wednesday, September 25, 2013
Top 10 reasons I'm happy to be home!
In case you didn't know, I'm home. And I have 10 reasons why this is a good thing!
1. Family. I have a new granddaughter!
Need I say more?
2. My bed. I've counted over 30 different sleeping arrangements over the past 90 days. These have included a mattress thrown on the floor, an overnight bus ride, and beds in twenty different cities and three different countries. There is nothing like coming home to one's own bed.
3. Toilet paper. South America, as a rule, does not have the kind of plumbing that allows for the flushing of toilet paper. Your soiled toilet paper is placed in a waste can next to the toilet. It's nice to be home and flush away.
4. Tap water. Nowhere in South America is it a good idea to drink water from the tap. The issues could range from bacterial to mineral content causing mild to major discomfort. One never just fills a cup with unfiltered tap water to drink. All drinkable water must be purchased in bottled form.
5. Mexican food. Although a staple of Brazilian cuisine is rice and beans, it is not the same. Those who ask if Brazilian food is anything like Mexican food need to look at a map of the Americas.
6. English. God has been so gracious to bless me with the ability to speak, preach and pray in Portuguese. But simply being able to speak English with my homies is a genuine source of praise.
7. My car. I haven't driven in three months. You miss it when you don't have it, believe it or not.
8. Non-suitcase life. I've lived out of a suitcase for three months. This means a limited wardrobe and the constant concern for where I might encounter a washing machine, or whether the day will be sunny enough to dry clothes hanging on an outdoor line. I have three identical black polo shirts in case you are wondering why I'm always wearing the same clothes in those Facebook photos.
9. Receipts. Although this was a mission trip, it was also a business trip. This means that every expenditure has to be accompanied by a receipt. Every expenditure.
10. Technology. At home you can expect to find a wifi or 3G connection at little or no cost. In South America, the search for wifi is much more of an adventure. In fact, my favorite application was something called "Mandic Magic," which enabled me to find nearby wifi signals if I wasn't in a familiar location.
And international 3G? It was something to be used sparingly.
Please don't imagine that I was unhappy to be in South America. Far from it! I am blessed to be able to serve there. The people have been warm and welcoming. It's just that it's also nice to be able to come home, be renewed and refreshed, before heading out again.
Thank you for your prayers and support!
Blessings from PJ
Tuesday, September 03, 2013
The world isn't California
One of the challenges of cross-cultural training is convincing people that how they dress in California may not be okay elsewhere.
In the last decade there has been much press coverage given to the circumstances of western women working, living or traveling in Arab countries, and their need to observe the more traditional expectations of women in those cultures. It has become commonplace to see female news correspondents wearing the traditional niqab or veiled head covering, together with wrist-length sleeves and ankle length skirts in order to avoid offense in these Muslim-majority areas. The example of this respectful observance of cultural norms and traditions is an important feature of effective cross-cultural interaction.
I continue to revisit this principle and make the effort to instruct others that the somewhat accepted southern California churchwear of tank-tops, shorts and rubber slippers would not be permissible in public in Brazil.
This is a difficult principle to convey to people. But it is also a way for the agency to measure an individual's teachability and openness to change.
My own lesson came during my first trip to Brazil in the city of Campo Grande. I was preparing to attend an evening event at the local church. I asked the pastor's daughter if it would be permissible for me to wear shorts to the service. She said it would be okay. Upon changing and joining the pastor and his wife in the family's living room to leave for the church, I was told, "Pastor John, you cannot wear those clothes. It is not appropriate attire." Of course, I remonstrated that their daughter had given her okay. "No, Pastor John. Those clothes will not be acceptable." So I went back to my room and changed.
That transition between insisting on what I thought was okay and what the people within the culture thought was okay can sometimes be a long journey. I have worked with many people for whom the transition was a rough and rocky road. One example of the cultural norm running head-on into personal preferences is the "no shorts in public rule." By shorts, let me be clear that we're talking about what were once called "bermuda shorts" or cut-offs. For the most part, except for campgrounds, soccer games and beach cities, wearing shorts has not been the cultural norm for professionals in Brazil.
In urban contexts, at church events, at the shopping malls, men always wear long pants. And although I am not positive about this, I think this was also true for women. Even in their leisure hours, people simply didn't wear shorts in urban settings. On the other hand, wearing shorts in the privacy of their homes or for our workers within the confines of their homestays was not an issue.
Here is where north clashed with south. "Why can't we wear shorts? Why do we have to wear long pants when it's so hot?" When cultural values do battle with personal preferences and convenience, it can be challenging. I found that saying, "Because that's the way it is" to not be very helpful. By the same token, explaining the culture and custom of the country wasn't helpful either. The training had to address the more personal issue of choosing to be a bridge rather than a barrier.
Americans learn slowly. I don't remember any other time in the history of middle east conflict where women journalists observed the Arab tradition for clothing. It seems to be a more recent shift. But the fact is we also weren't at war with everyone in the world with the potential of creating more tension.
For good or for ill, allowing our personal preferences to give way to an acceptance and embracing of cultural norms is about bridge building. It's about not choosing to permit a relatively minor temporal, physical matter to become a barrier that results in eternal spiritual consequences. It may be helpful to think of the familiar biblical passage in a slightly different way: "What good is it for a person to gain the whole world and lose their soul?" Paraphrased, "Sure, you can have your way, but will it cause someone to not hear what you have to say because they can't get around the way you're dressed?"
No one said that building cross-cultural bridges would be easy. Not everywhere can nor should be like California.
Monday, September 02, 2013
What's wrong with helping?
I was to learn the importance of right words on my very first visit to São Paulo as a JEMS director in 1992. Addressing a meeting of thirty pastors and leaders, I shared JEMS' vision for work in Brazil.
I spoke through an interpreter, thus giving me the opportunity to read the audience reaction during the side-by-side interpretation format. My comments were no more than three or four minutes, but I noticed that after one of my comments that there was a wave of reaction. Neither smiles nor approving nods.
After the meeting I was approached by three of the leaders and very graciously, but firmly instructed on my use of language. In my presentation I had stated our agency's intention to "help the Nikkei churches of Brazil." Can anyone spot the problem?
No? The problem was in the use of the word "help." As one of many emerginging nations, Brazil had a particular sensitivity to the idea of being the "little brother" in the economic and global political environment.
The idea of "helping" the Nikkei churches, though completely unintentional, had the sound of big brother helping the more unfortunate little brother. The leadership of that group heard it as the intention of some mighty USA-based enterprise "swooping to the rescue of the Brazilian Nikkei churches."
In Portuguese the word "ajudar" is defined as helping those who are helpless or without strength or resources. I learned from the leadership that a better word, a word that would best express my intention, would be the verb, "partner."
Far from being one-sided, the relationship would be collaborative and equal. That difference would lay the foundation for a good relationship between JEMS, as an international agency and the Nikkei Brazilian leadership.
In this partnership, we north Americans have received so much from our Brazilian Nikkei counterparts. Their emotion and expression of worship, their openness and warmth in relationships, their fervor for prayer and praise. In most cases, it is clear that who helped whom was not the way you might think.
This also indicates how very careful one must be in cross-cultural communication efforts. A wrong word can close the door. I must say that even with the unfortunate wording of my first official contact, people responded graciously to our initial overtures to establish collaborations.
Today as JEMS workers come to Brazil, they are instructed as to the use of language and wording in describing the purpose of their ministry to the church in Brazil. And yes, there are still moments when I cringe when a young JEMS worker will say with enthusiasm, "we're here to help you!"
We have a lot to learn yet.
Today as JEMS workers come to Brazil, they are instructed as to the use of language and wording in describing the purpose of their ministry to the church in Brazil. And yes, there are still moments when I cringe when a young JEMS worker will say with enthusiasm, "we're here to help you!"
We have a lot to learn yet.
Thursday, August 22, 2013
Old friends, new opportunities
Recent meetings enabled me to reconnect with the Kunihiro family. Some of you may remember Hideo Kunihiro who served as the challenge speaker at Mount Hermon Main Camp in the late 1980s. His nephew, Stephen, is a friend of mine who works in an interior city in the state of São Paulo.
He asked me if I had been in contact with his brother, Joseph in the city of São Paulo. I acknowledged that I hadn't seen Joseph in some twenty years.
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| PJ and Stephen meeting in June 2013 |
The result of that conversation created an opportunity for me to follow up with Joseph and to learn that, in addition to being a surgeon, he was serving on the pastoral staff of the Christian Missionary Alliance Church in the Vila Ema section of São Paulo.
Through his kind arrangement I was invited by the senior pastor to speak at the church on Sunday, August 18. What I discovered was a church that was very eager to learn about JEMS and about the short-term mission projects that JEMS is creating for Brazilian nationals to serve in other countries. In addition to bringing the morning message, I was able to share with them about JEMS interest in reaching out to the Nikkei community in Argentina. That community being approximately 85% of Okinawan descent.
As an interesting bit of coincidence, the Vila Ema church is predominantly of Okinawan descent as well. They showed a high level of interest in the possibilities of working together with JEMS in future short-term missions.
Through his kind arrangement I was invited by the senior pastor to speak at the church on Sunday, August 18. What I discovered was a church that was very eager to learn about JEMS and about the short-term mission projects that JEMS is creating for Brazilian nationals to serve in other countries. In addition to bringing the morning message, I was able to share with them about JEMS interest in reaching out to the Nikkei community in Argentina. That community being approximately 85% of Okinawan descent.
As an interesting bit of coincidence, the Vila Ema church is predominantly of Okinawan descent as well. They showed a high level of interest in the possibilities of working together with JEMS in future short-term missions.
The pastoral staff, pictured below, was warm and welcoming. Senior Pastor Artur and his wife, as well as Pastor Joseph and his wife.
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| Pr Artur and esposa |
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| Pr Joseph and Marcia |
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